Solomon Olalemi

  It was Friday 31st of march, 2023 when I decided to binge on Twitter and I saw different funny comments about the first quarter of the year and how stressful and annoying it was. Someone even went as far as saying "He didn't wish to experience this kind of first quarter in his life again". In as much as these comments were funny, they stroke a cord in my heart and this is why I decided to write to you.  While I understand what those who tweeted about the first quarter were saying and where the perspective they were coming from, I must also state emphatically that most times we are the problem of our problem. The only reason why we don't know or it looks oblivious to us is that we are blinded and assumed other things are the problem. If you as a person learn to take a retrospective look into your life, you will discover what the true problem was and the role you play in them. One of the five reasons why the first quarter looks horrible is that you probably set goals ...

Judgement is not too far from us humans and while it is sometimes good, the people we are judging might feel a bit nostalgic about the judgement and it might tend to be unfair to them.  In my country Nigeria, usually, when a thief is caught in the market, he/she is burned alive or stone to death especially if there is no police officer close by to save him from the mob's hands. Are this kind of Judgement fair or humane or they are right and just? Humans are special species because they tend to be egoistic and self-centred. An average human thinks about himself first before thinking about other people. While this is not a bad trait, it can tend to be overly complicated.  What this implies is that we humans tend to see everything from our purview. This then raise a curious question in me- If life was only the colour Yellow; How are we going to see others? I remember reading a book titled- "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by John Gray". In that book, John Gray talked...